Sunday, July 11, 2010

Henri'

Henri' and his ball. He does want to play a lot, but then when he comes in, he seems dumpy. This is his game. He passes the ball through the opening on the deck and then we throw it into the yard and he chases it.


I have been worried about Henri, after losing Timber. He seems kind of lost and isn't eating well. I'm reading "that when one dog dies you may notice some changes in the one that is left behind. Because they cannot speak, we don't really know what they are thinking, so we must base our interpretations of their emotional state on their behavior. They show symptoms similar to humans such as loss of interest and sleeping more than usual. They may lose their appetite and become disoriented. Without the other canine pack member, his position in life has now changed. A former leader dog is without a follower. A former follower dog is without a canine leader. When the daily scent of his friend is suddenly gone, and the daily routine is absent, the dog must certainly become confused. We think that dogs don't actually understand the concept of death, much like small children, but he knows that his pal isn't there and his scent is gone from the environment. So because he doesn't understand what happened, and because he can't play or smell his friend, and his daily routine is turned upside down for him, he might just lay around all day. His familiar smells are gone. We probably interpret this as sadness or grieving. Your dog may miss his canine companion as much as you do. Time heals all wounds has meaning for your dog too."

9 comments:

Suz said...

i knew it...poor Henri
how are you doing?

I Love Pretty Little Things said...

Oh, that is so sad! I swear dogs have such human like qualities. I hope that all of you feel better soon. It's hard to lose someone or something that you love so much...

I was so excited to see your blog on my Friday Pretties link! I will be back Friday!!!

Enjoy your week,
Joyce

april said...

We're okay, Sue. And after I posted yesterday, it seemed last evening Henri was coming around a little - I think I see him being himself a little more.

Hi Joyce!...and I'm just a little confused as to what to do.

I Love Pretty Little Things said...

Hello! What you do for Friday Pretties is, on Friday, you post about something pretty, whatever you want, and then you mention Friday Pretties and link it back to my blog.

Then everyone starts hopping around to each others blogs to see all of the pretties. Do you know how to link to other places from your blog?

I hope that this explanation makes sense. :)

Let me know if you need help, Joyce

Doris said...

Oh April,
It is so healthy to witness animals grief and to learn from it. All animals grieve. I was looking for my copy of "The soul of animals" and fear it is another book lent never returned. All animals have stages of mourning and some extra hugs help, but somehow they get through it and accept it better than us. The diet also is not a concern, the heat also affects that... it'll return. Give Henri a hug from me!

MB said...

April, did your vet come to your house to put down Timber? If so, that might have helped Henri. I have read that the most confusing thing is when you take the dying dog away and the healthy dog at home never sees him again and wonders what became of him. I've read that dogs, like many animals, can smell and understand death, so if Henri got to see Timber's body that might have helped him. Sorry if this is too graphic but dogs do learn about the world through their noses primarily. Hugs, MB

april said...

Doris, he is coming around. I think the hugs are helping...him and me.

Yes, Mary Beth, the vet did come to the house, but Mark kept Henri out in the yard because he is still so active and wouldn't have left anyone alone. I did put Timber's collar on the chair though and put his pillow back next to Henri's and that seemed to help. He is much better today.

april said...

At night when we go to bed though, I think he is confused why Timber isn't in "his spot" in the room.

Laura said...

April all that you shared is what Carl has gone though and now he looks to me even more to be is pack leader which is Ok but my Carl seem to get a bit obessed by it so I have to watch that... and he so now enjoys the longs walks we take together, some thing we didn't do cause our louies' legs were not well so giving our Carl a new routine has helped... it's sad but all part of the cycles we go though..if we never know what it's like to grieve and be sad we would never know what joy and love would be like...hugs to Henri and his family..(You and the hubby)